So, how do you cruise for sex without exposing yourself to homophobic retaliation? How do you know which ones are queer, and which ones are just… hot? The solution is simple: after you pass someone you’re interested in… turn around. If he doesn’t turn around, he’s straight (or overly picky), and he’s none-the-wiser that you’re checking him out. But if he does turn around…. you’re in luck.
But “the turnaround” isn’t just a cruising technique. It’s also something that – I admit it – I kinda hope for during a hook-up.
But when they give you another turnaround and talk to you afterward… that’s the nicest of all.